Wow, Raven, you have as many critters as I do lol! I love my fur babies so much so I know how you hurt when you lost yours. I am so sorry hon.
I am also sorry for the loss of your mother in law. It is always so hard when a mom dies. We come from our mom's so we have a literal connection with them. It is something most people don't think about very often.
Hon, can you take an online course for History? My son works hellish hours but takes courses online and is now going for his BA or BS (can't remember what he decided on that lol). He says it is hard taking three classes with his schedule and his three martial arts classes, but he feels fulfilled so it is worth it. The nice thing about that is that you can pretty much work around any schedule, as he has proven. Whatever you decide, I know you will do great things!
As for your group hon... well, it's hard to say anything about that but that I am sending you positive energy for you to draw upon when you make your decision. I know you will make the best one for your mental/emotional self.
You take care Raven.
Hugs
Rowan
Oh, yes, I am working on backing up the posts here. It is going to take a bit of time but I will get as much as I can during the time left here.
We will decide where to go before it IS time so no worries there hon.