Aimoo has a private e-mail system and you sent me a private e-mail and I responded. Look at the home page and you'll see that "Inbox" is blinking.
For folks who are concerned re privacy, you can send private e-mails to members w/out divulging your e-mail addy. Also, I "hid" the Members list for now so that you can get accustomed to the site and customize your profile to show or hide identifying info.