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| | From: kodakchromer (Original Message) | Sent: 10/26/2008 6:58 AM |
Well, He is almost here....5 more days or more and I shall be an official GRANDMA for the very first time!!!! My one and only child is due to have her first baby on Halloween! So my question is for all of you great people on this site, How the heck am I supposed to not stick my nose in where it doesn't belong like I know everything and what makes a great grandparent? Any advice for this newbee??? |
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So happy for you.Don't spoil him.(LOL) I am the only grandparent and when I figure out how to keep my nose out,I'll let you know.Things have changed so much. |
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Congrats kodakchromer. A Halloween baby how wonderful. Have you noticed how young Grandmas are? I don't feel that much different from when I graduated high school but that lady looking back in the mirror sure is old!!! LOL |
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First of all may I say a big congrats. I have a 19 month old grandson and a grandaughter that is due Christmas Day. The grandbabies are now living in Okinawa for 2 1/2 more years but my grandson was born here and we were standing right outside the delivery room. When he made his first cry all the grandmas cried too. People kept telling me you love your children but you LOVE your grandbabies and I know what they mean now. The best advice I can give you is wait for your DD is ask for advice, don't just offer it. And remember that things have changed alot since you had your DD, what you did with her may not be the norm anymore. Again, congrats. Do you live close to your DD? DS lived about 25 miles from us when grandson was born. I saw him as much as I could but I also didn't make a pest of myself. |
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Congratulations. I have nine and now going to have GREAT no 5. You spoil them a little bit. Can't help yourself. Un fortunately mine are not close enough. YUK> I offer my opinion they can take it or not. I do it nicely tho. I know they have to learn. They are something else tho. |
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give advice if asked...don't butt your nose in if
it's not asked for....
remember things have changed and she may have her
own ideas on how to do things....
enjoy the kid as much as possible witohout making a
pest of yourself....
cangrats by the way |
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How wonderful and exciting for you!! I fully love being a grandparent. Hubby and I have 9 grandchildren ranging from 7 months to 22years old. Just be there for them. My hubby is retired and babysits our new grandson. It is so great. We offer advice which is seldom excepted, but I understand it has been 36 years since our children were born. My daughter-in-law would rather go to her online groups for advice. It doesn't hurt my feelings, because I know she is a wonderful mother. But sometimes, I want to remind her that all of my children turned out happy and healthy. |
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