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I am so sorry for your loss. I can't even begin to imagine your pain, and having to bury one child let alone two. Children are supposed to out live there parents, not the other way around. Take care friend. |
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You'll be in my prayers... I can't even imagine the loss.... |
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My heart is heavy with this news. My prayers to you and I wish her well in her new life...... |
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 | | From: Sarge | Sent: 8/13/2008 7:26 AM |
I do know your loss. I lost my two sons and I can tell you that it will never leave your mind or heart. I still have things that belonged to them and every time I sit in my son's 68 Barracuda I can feel his presence. I made my other son's promise that the car would always belong to their brother but we would be charged with keeping it maintained and running for him. And then one of my other sons was murdered and his personal possessions were brought to me to keep for his young son some day. I often take the cover off his motorcyle and just stand there and look at it. I can see him sitting there and his smile and cocky look to his face. He and that bike were together every time we got to see him. Those visible items that I have are full of memories and I will never get rid of them or sell them. It would be like selling my sons. Sometimes a persons belongings is all you have left to remember them by. But I feel a person leaves a little of him or herself in material things. And if you can tune into that you can feel their presence. Keep something that belonged to your daughter and hold it often. It will help you. I know it has helped me. Sarge |
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I cannot begin to imagine the enormity of such a loss. You have my thoughts and prayers and those of all my family. With greatest condolences, Gulfstream |
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Thank you all so much. Her son decided that the funeral was too much for him so he cremated her. That makes me shiver to think about it. We did go down for the viewing but then drove right back home. I did not feel like going to any of his parties. I don't know if any of you have ever read "the cremation of Sam MaGee". That was a favorite of my oldest brother. He would go around the house quoting it, and parts of it are in my memory. Had I gone to their wake I would have read this over her cold frozen body and so I did not go. A friend of hers joined us at the funeral home and as we sat there looking at her and talking of her since of humor. She was lying with her arms outstretched( they do nothing to shape her into a comfortable looking position. I said "Edie wouldn't it be grand if when they get here and are all standing around pretending to greive if she would just levitate off the table just a couple of feet up and then slowly go back down. We all laughed ."A final word from her" |
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LOng time no speak to wicked and glad to see you .Prayer wheel in motion |
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