There is a weird divide going on, or at least a perception of one

 

Having said that, I'm friends with a lot of people that get on ok with John.. and on the other side of the coin I realise there are a lot of people that don't like Ghosty, and I get on ok with him

 

So.. the only perception of "sides" is from Ghosty's and John's "advertising" of what's taking place

 

Both of them - if someone has a problem with either one - if you have a problem with John and get on ok with Ghosty.. John might call you a Ghosty supporter, if you have a problem with Ghosty and get on ok with John.. Ghosty might call you a John supporter

 

That's where I think there's a big perception problem taking place - and people are sometimes almost forcing each other to give an opinion when they post an example of what one of them did wrong

 

I think stepping outside of the box, most of us get along fine regardless of who's ok with which one lol.. although there seems to be a lot of people that are either on good terms with one or the other.. is there anyone that's on good terms with both of them?.. there are a few that don't like either of them

 

Why does such a minefield exist between two people?

Agreed