Case # 021 Pain from inoperable brain tumor, and emotional constipation
I was requested by the patient's daughter to come and see if EFT could help her mom. That mom was in alot of pain, and was unsure if she would survive the day. Veronica asked me to go to her mom's home because she was home bound. I agreed.
When I arrived the mother wasn't home, but several of the adult children were, all fighting and yelling at each other for reasons I couldn't make out, When the fists started flying I stayed outside with the little kids in case the police showed up, there would be someone left to watch the kids... me! After about 30 minutes some of the agitants left and things settled down and the mother, Joann, returned from her Dr visit.
Joann is a 54 year old woman diagnosed with an inoperable brain tumor which is causing her pain in the form of migraine headaches. She has also been told by her Dr that she has an aneurism in her brain and has given her a day to day prognosis.
When I first met Joann, her family was in turmoil adding to her stress and anxiety regarding impeding demise and concern of what would the family do to each other when she was no longer there to keep the peace.
Her migraine had become a daily event and no one was sure she would survive another day. She says it was like vultures hovering. Privately I thought, "More like rabid jackals". But I kept that to myself.
First thing we tapped on was her migraine. She was over due on her pain medication and it was an optimum time to assess her SUDS . She set it at a 100. I told her 10 was sufficient, smiling. We tapped on it and her SUDS level dropped to a 7. She wanted to know if the EFT could help with her anxiety due to her medical condition. I told her it could and we would try it on what ever issue came up. We tapped n a variety of issues with different measured levels of success.
We tapped on her fear of her family's future without her,
her inability to express her feelings toward her children due to how she was raised and her own history of abuse
her feelings of anger toward her abusive mother
her feelings of loss regarding a baby she'd lost
Her anger toward her mother for taking the baby
her frustration from older family members interference with her children
her feelings of helplessness
All of these issues SUDS levels dropped from 10's to 3-4's
We tapped again on her headache that she said remained at a level 7 and it dropped to a 3
Her children, (mostly adults) joined us by that time and were impressed at the improvement in their mothers appearance.
We talked about her wishes to have them know how much she loved them before she was gone and all sorts of issues came up.
We tapped on several independent scenarios, such as the return of her son after drug related incidents and clarified some misunderstandings. The group of children watched as Joann tapped on the remainder of her headache and we group tapped on breaking down barriers that prevented expression of emotion.
After 6 hours with Joann and her family at their home, and up to 4 times tapping on each issue, she said her SUD levels for
anxiety had dropped from a 10 to a 1
headache from a 10 to a 0
anger from a 10 to a 1
loss from a 10 to a 1
frustration from a 8 to a 0
and her feelings of helplessness from a 10 to a 0
As for her inability for her to express her feelings to her kids....
By the time I left, they were all hugging and telling each other how they loved each other, and each of them were not only telling each other, they were accepting it from each other.
Update:
Two and a half months after my session with Joann and her family I popped in to see how she was doing. There was a dramatic difference in the atmosphere of the home. The son recovering from drug additction had gotten a job and a promotion and put on weight. The son who was angry, glowering, and overweight, was smiling, working, has a new girlfriend, he'd lost at least 20 pounds and was getting along with the other siblings. The daughter was smiling, and best of all Joann looked much better. She was still alive and dealing with her situation much better. She said she went in for an MRI shortly after our session and the MRI showed the tumor hadn't grown, but it didn't find the aneurysm. She is going to have another one soon to be sure. She felt much better about being able to tell her kids she loves them and does so on a daily basis now. Her stress levels vary but seldom go over a 4 and she has continued to tap on things as they arise with continued success.
Case # 022 Anxiety over impending surgery and back pain from Spinal Stenosis
Bette is a 76 year old woman from Albuquerque, diagnosed with Spinal Stenosis. A debilitating and progressive condition that puts pressure on her spinal cord and caused a great deal of back pain and pain down her legs.
After 8 months of tapping on the back pain with little or no success she decided to have the back surgery she had been avoiding. Her anxiety levels regarding the surgery went thru the roof.
We tapped on her fear of "going under the knife" , of not coming out of anesthesia, and her fear of the surgery either not working or making her pain worse, and the dread of that possibility.
After tapping on each of those 5 issues a couple times, she said she felt much better and not anxious at all.
The morning of her surgery she was amazed at how calm she was and wasn't having a panic attack that she expected she would have at the last minute.
Post surgery
Bette came out of the surgery well.
She didn't like all the instructions about the kinds of post operative things she was going to have to do to recover, such as exercising and walking. We tapped on her frustration that she couldn't just roll off the Gurney with a 20 year old's back.
Update
Two weeks after Bette's surgery she is experiencing less pain , but not as "less" as she wanted. We tapped again on her frustration.
Bette has had difficulty tapping on herself due to inability to orientate herself to where to tap. Familial (Essential) Tremors in her hands contribute to the frustration. We tapped on that as well.
Bette's recovery from surgery continues to be slow. She says the pain in her back is not that much different from before the surgery and is fearing it will never improve.
Her lack of cooperation regarding Dr's orders to walk and do stretching exercises hinders her recovery and exacerbates her frustration.
Six weeks after surgery, Bette is tapping periodically with me guiding her over the phone now since I returned to California.
She says her ability to assess a SUDS level is unreliable, that she can't be objective.
Her ability to focus and concentrate on an issue being tapped on is compromised by her thinking about what to tap on next.
Case #23 Post surgical pain
B., a middle aged dance teacher with post surgical pain. B. called me this morning about a week after she had had a hip replacement surgery. Over the weekend she had had horrible pain and went to the ER with a fever, dizziness and too much pain to walk. The Dr.'s had put her on antibiotics and given her Demerol for the pain. Now that the pain meds have worn off, she sought me out to help. We did one round of EFT over the phone and she said her pain level had gone from a 5 to a 2 or less.
Case#23 Grief and stress
M.‘s mother in law passed away and having had previous experience with me using EFT for a headache, she decided to use EFT for the stress of this situation. She then sent me this e-mail:
"Thank you so much for showing me the basics of EFT. I have been dealing with a family death and the stress of family sorrow and have found myself headachy and completely drained of energy.
I thought of you and the EFT that you counciled me to use in times of stress so I started tapping...it really helped!!
And it continues to help as I venture through today....Thank you , so much , for guiding me and teaching me such a wonderful way to deal with pain...of all kinds. "
Case#24 Lingering pain from injury
John, a 22 year old veteran has continued pain from an injury received in Iraq. Shrapnel lodged in his knee from an explosion has not been removed because the doctors have been unable to remove it. Although he can walk on it, he often has to use a cane to get around. He was very skeptical as to any effectiveness because of the remaining shrapnel. But agreed to try EFT. He said after one round it "felt weird" like a foot that’s been asleep and starting to wake up, like pin pricks and didn’t want to go another round. He was a little freaked out.
The next night, he came over and told me he wasn’t sure about the EFT, but he had to admit, he hadn’t had to use his cane all day.