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"What can I say" : I am sure I heard Jacob the other night
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From: MSN NicknameAndyhunt74  (Original Message)Sent: 7/5/2008 11:33 PM
Hi Guys
 
I just wanted to say I am positive I heard Jacob the other night, even though in a way I wish I had'nt because what he said freaked me out badly.  Although I've never heard Jacob speak as he could'nt talk, I would say I am 99% sure it was him.  I was in his room crying I was talking to him and I just said, 'I wish you did'nt have to go, and straight away I heard words back saying 'I did'nt want to die mummy' it really freaked me out and set me back quite a bit.  If I'd heard ' but I'm happy mummy;, I could have handled that but there was nothing else.  Now I'm so scarred he's alone and has no one and just wants me to hold him, how do I deal with this.  I've made all sorts of excuses up as to what it could be but nothing fits.  I'm not even 100% it wasn't all in my head but I don't think it was.  I am so sorry if this upsets anyone just have no one else I can tell.
 
Andrea


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From: MomOf4Sent: 7/11/2008 4:56 PM
Oh, Andrea...my dear...Maybe Jacob could not talk in this earthly life....but, you can know that now he is whole, healthy and happy....and that he can talk.....maybe not so we can hear, but, he can talk....and, please, rest assured that he is NOT alone...he is with the master who has gathered him into his loving arms.
I am sure that if given a choice, he would choose not to die....but, most times, we are not given that choice.  I am sure that what he meant was that he did not want to leave his dear mom.  And, even if it was all in our head....so what....that is where thought orriginates.  
My Bobby was teaching me to use my computer.  He would say...'you don't have to double click on a link, but, you do on an icon'.  For a long time after he died.....when I made a booboo on the computer...it seemed that I could hear him say.....'you just did it again'.   Maybe it was just in my head....but that's ok...
 
Hugs....Rean

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From: mike's momSent: 7/12/2008 9:07 PM
i really believe this as i was talking to my son that took his own life and i said to him Michael why why did you do what you did and then it was like he was right there and said to me "Mom i didn't do it" then i got to wondering if he was murdered, told my daughter about the conversation and she believed me said that Michael had talked to her also about what happened. So i believe they can talk to you
 
Hugs,
Mary(Mikes Mom)

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