How long does grief last? Many people find that: - grief comes and goes in waves for a long time
- the intense feelings may begin to ease a little after the first year
- coping gets easier over time and confidence begins to return
- they slowly begin to develop new interests and find that life starts to have some meaning again
- it may take a long time to go back to some places or do the things they used to do before the person died
- although they can manage to have a new and full life, it may take years before they feel they can be fully themselves without the person who died
- even when they thought they were over their grief, feelings may be triggered by memories of such things as places, songs, movies, poems, even smells.
- they never forget the person
- they never stop loving the person.
- they carry the memory of the person with them throughout their lives.
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