I just got the courage to read yours.I am so sorry that you had to go through this.Like you said if we had know ahead REALLY known ahead we wouldn't have gone anywhere. Sledding was nice.YOU ARE A GREAT MOM. If you haven't heard it in a while here it is. Whenever you need to here it come to this reply and know that someone who really cares and has been in your shoes KNOWS you are a good person and wonderful mother. HUGS,Lis