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"What can I say" : An awful night
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From: blueyes  (Original Message)Sent: 9/7/2006 4:43 AM
  I woke up last night at 11:30 and I went to the bathroom and passed a big clot.  It felt like the baby just slipped out.  I was mortified.  I was in disbelief and numb.  I wasn't cramping though.  I called the Health link number and they made me feel a bit better.  Chris is away on a feild job so I called him and stressed him out.  It was an awful night.  I didn't know if more was to come.  I was scared to go to the bathroom as if I could hold the baby in.  So this morning my favorite nurse (she's been through a stillbirth and miscarriages) made sure she got me into an ultrasound.  I saw my babies heart beat.  So everything is ok so far.  It was so scary! I can't lose another child.  I just can't!  I think I will snap if I lose this one.  It was so nice but so hard to see the heart beat cause I am so scared of losing it.  But think positivly right.  That is what my husband keeps saying.  I sure hope I am here in 3 months saying I am still pregnant.  Then I will shout it to the rooftops and celebrate.  That was my night after my stressful day of putting my child on the bus for his first day of school.  I better go to bed cause I've got to get up and put him on the bus tomorrow.  Talk to you later.


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From: MomOf4Sent: 9/9/2006 4:38 PM
I have never had a miscarriage, so I don't know what it is like, but, I imagine that it is awful....I also hope that you are here in 3 month shouting..I'm still pregnant...and then at the end you delever a beautiful, healthy baby...

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From: MSN NicknameGrandmat36Sent: 10/4/2006 2:10 AM
I have had a miscarriage Susan, as a matter of fact I've had five miscarriages, one stillborn, and a tubular pregnancy, and I know they don't do your heart any justice at all. According to my doctor, at the time, part of my problem was that I was  worrying so, so much  about losing the baby that I was actually causing myself a lot of undo-stress which in turn was not helping the pregnancy. So try not to worry about it too much, because I to would like to hear you say in three months that you are still pregnant. I will diffinitely rejoice with you, that I can assure you. I know when things like that happen it can sure be frightening, especially when you're alone. Surely God know that you have suffered enough. Before I go to bed I will pray that you stay healthy throughout your pregnancy so you can deliever a beautiful healthy child. Take care Susan!
Hugs...Shannon

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From: MSN Nicknameanniewhits58Sent: 10/4/2006 10:24 PM
This is such a difficult time for you - know wonder you are anxious. Especially when you are by yourself - thinking of you and wishing you good thoughts today.

Annie

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