There are two churches I have found in Frindsbury, Kent. One is St Philip & St James but wasn't built until 1878 so we can exclude this as being the place of Thomas Benham & Keturah Town's marriage. However, the other is All Saints where the original registers date back to 1669 so I imagine we can (reasonably safely) assume this to be the correct church:
Hope this is of interest.
Kay
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