oh i didn't say i make the list in a certain order and we do them in that order - like if there are dishes in the kitchen i know that's scott's thing so i'd put him in the kitchen first then me second to finish it up.  or if our room is neat i'll put him in there first because i know he'll do the bed but if it's awful i'll put myself in there first because he gets quickly overwhelmed by a messy bedroom.