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To have sex??? Some ppl crave it more than others and then there are those who feel like they could be w/out it forever.
What kind of person are you? I really like to have sex and especially, now because I have someone special to share this w/as well as the fact he pleases me and I do him... chemistry is what it might be called. If I was able to make love w/him everyday then I'd be happy with this, however, because time or energy doesn't allow for this I'd be happy w/having sex w/him 4x's a week at least. *blushing* What's?? This ain't asking too much is it?? Heehee. He's been a lot more patient w/me though I'll tell you because when I was really sick before ya'll knew me I didn't desire sex and he waited 2 wks to be near me again. I would've been like see ya! Nah kidding. Truly though, I sometimes will get the urge and when he's not around I just masturbate and think of all the fun we've had in bed and it's just like making love to him.
I guess I feel the urge to have sex at least a few times a week, but if I could get it everyday and be in good health and spirits.. I'd take it! |
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Well then SD I was right on the head about the amt of times I like to make love w/Fettucini! *heehee* Seems these days though we're meeting up only once in a while, like once a week while. It's sad and I think we're sexually frustrated, or is there such a thing? I really haven't felt the urge for it and so I guess I can't have this, but how about him from a man's perspective if you wouldn't mind SD? |
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I am with lynnie..........sorry but the old labido is down alot lately. sometimes the urge hits and wham........it was good but then other times I dont even want to . wish I knew of something to make the drive come back like it used to be any recommends???? I miss those good old days. |
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Or maybe we just need jumper cables in our bedroom and learn how to use them,  .  |
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I'm not quite ready for the jumper cables yet because I know I got mucho libido, but it's the fucking pain all over my body cause of the spine disease and it's causing me to want to just stay back from sex. I think it's taking a toll on Fettucini a little bit, but he says he totally understands. It's not like I'm always the nicest person either these days when he approaches me for an innocent kiss and I back off from him. It's been a ride so far and I hope I start to feel better soon. It seems like masturbating is the only thing I really get pleasure from right now and I barely do this. What's going on w/you Tresa? |
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I don't think it's a male/female issue, Lynnie. Every individual has a different sex drive and the drive within each of us waxes and wanes. It is probably impossible and unrealistic to think that our desire for sex will always be in sync with our partner's. |
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Well lynnie I think mine is menopause in a way also. Things have changed so much since my aneurysm (we call it annie for short) much easier to type. But I cant take hormones because of it. Anyway I too am like you........i back off sometimes.......sometimes its there and sometimes its like I am just a "dud" ......."nada" nothing.....ya know And I didnt used to be like this. Its sad to me.. ....cause I just want to feel the way I did before being sick. My doctor suggested Vit. E.........well I think I could eat the whole bottle.......havent seen any good results yet from that. LOL except maybe my skin might look good. LOL your right sourdough.........but we did used to be in sync.......but now its me mostly nothing that he has done.........cause he's a jewel to me hes been very patient and kind........and no doubt he loves this broken down old girl. LOL |
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I need it now but I think I need it 3 or 4 times a week but would settle for once a week |
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We have the problem of schedules. I get up at 4am so I get tired pretty early. By the time my son is in bed one, or both, of us is wiped out most of the time. We`have had to resort to sending the kid outside to play and running off into the bedroom. Lol. |
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That's all I have to say about that .. unless there's any offers? |
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I've been a little concerned about this. Dated a guy couple of years ago, loved having sex with him. Dated a teacher for a year and during the relationship and ever since, never want to have sex. It's like he broke it. Is it going to come back? Don't even want to date anymore, no interest. That's just not like me. |
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Margo~ you might be going thru the change.. They say sometimes that happens.. Id bet though you just need some strappin man to flip your zipper so to speak and all lights will come back on... |
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Or is it something which completely turned you off from this man and now the thought of sex is unappeasing? This can happen because it's happened to me too. This one guys' balls smelled like rotted prune pits and after this it took me a long while to go down on a man again. Mind you, I was dating this guy on and for about 6mos and never got that not-so-fresh-smell from him ever. Well so much for never, huh? LMFAO! As of late, I haven't thought of sex once unless Fettucini touches me, or kisses my neck softly do I get the urge to fornicate. LOL! Fornicate! LOL! I was NEVER like this. I knew I'd want to have sex as often as I could no matter what and come to find out just a couple of yrs later I really don't much care if I do, or don't.Just wonder if it's all this stuff that went wrong w/me lately. I've been sick in the head and still wanted to fornicate. LOL! |
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Don't think it's the "change". Think he just turns me off emotionally. He's weird. Depressed. Obsessive. While I understand all these things and made allowances for some knowing he couldn't help them there is only so much I can forgive. Still trying to be his friend so took him out for his birthday this week. Hadn't seen him in weeks and felt only revulsion when I did. He spent the entire dinner whining about how depressed he is, how no one calls him or comes over. Who'd want to? After an hour with this guy I want to end my own life! I don't mean to sound heartless, I'm not. But this man tried to use me to feel better about himself and it left me with nothing. I'm thinking/hoping that if I get into a healthy relationship the rest will come back.Hoping anyways. Lynnie, physical or emotional problems affect our sexual urges. Here's hoping your's comes back too. |
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Yes I'm sure of this now, but as of lately... I've been back to my old driven self again, however the pain does get in the damn way. We've been trying to be very careful when it comes to making love and never fails the next day on top of the pain I have to begin w/now becomes worse after a good "jam session" lol! But I can't stop and won't stop. He's so understanding of this too, but it's selfish as it may sound it's not all about pleasing him, but myself as well. And after we make love and have been having a stressful day it sure does make life sweet again. Margo, I can't stand to hear anybody whine all the time about their woes, but it's even worse when it's a man doing it. LOL! I mean let's face it a lot of men can hold it in pretty well and even though it's not always a good thing, it sure does make being on a date w/a man a heck of a lot easier I'm sure. It's just the way we've been taught about men; they don't whine, or moan and so when it does happen it must be a turn off. Up to date I've never been w/a man like this. I've been w/a man who constantly complained, but yet it didn't really turn me off cause what he was complaining about was what he was doing in order to make shit right and that's what brought on the complaints. So to me it was like, he deserves to be upset and I still can see myself being w/this man. However, a woe and pity me man, or woman for that matter, is a turn off in anyway to me.
Did I get completely off the damn subject??? LOL!
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