My dear,,,,,,,, It is hard one that we all have too deal with. We should not in any way ,, take it personal!!!!   Having to face and adjust to being disabled,,,, is in no way a adjustment that anyone wants to deal with!!!!!!  Seeing how n what we deal with is all our problem!!!!!! As it is disabiling our bodys not our minds ability!!!  People see me cannot see the scars on my body,,, And see that I am very stiff..... Nothing really wrong with me... Not at all,,,, but that does change what I can or cannot do!!!!!!! Not by long shot... Seeing peoples acceptance or disgust is a hurt that I do or do not accept. When people can n do smile back or look away in disgust,,, LORD do not let them have too deal with this..... As LORD you know that person is really judgemental!!!!!!!!     Judging one can make that come around  four times stronger!!!! I do not that coming on me.  So please know it is not any of us who wants to deal with..  As my scarring from the accident are all hidden by my clothing... People see that I walk very stiffly,,,,, and with a different type of gait than what most people COULD use. But people say that all the scarring n lengths looks like a train station!!!!!! See,,, one of my scars goes from the belly button all way around to the spine!!!! that is just one scar. I heard that there are six scars on my back.  So please know that the simplest of things is still adjustment that we adjust too...... Not fun!!!!!!! Huggzzzz!!!!!!!!!                   Annie