OOO   {{{{{{{{Annie}}}}}}}}}}  I fully understand where  U are at in all of this.. I have started in my eighth yr of dealing with all of this..  Dear one,,,  stress is not helping any of these situations out.. I use a speak n type for all of my typing when I am hurting really badd..When pain levels changes  so does your voice,,, u have too reset for that also... Stress will make all of these situations worse... All of the pain levels went crazy with my moving n all.I got sicker,,,, Maybe a part time assistant too help cut down on the hours... Anything  that you make easer for you is what is needed... with  daughters help as well.. Meds are going too  have side affects.. I am getting over two reactions rite now..  WOWOW,,, any thing we can help with  be happy too any time,,,,   hope we can help ,,, please keep us informed...   Welcome too the group!!!!!!!