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| | From: rat_lover64 (Original Message) | Sent: 7/28/2008 8:08 AM |
Thank you everyone who responded to my emotional crisis. I am doing slightly better. Part of me is heartbroken because I finally got brave enough to tell someone in authority, and they called health and wellfare to see what could be done to help me, and unfortunately without physical proof of the abuse, there is nothing they can do. So I was dejected and wanted to give up, but then I talked to my friend, and she helped me to see how strong I am. So I'm not giving up. Tomorrow we are going to plot and see what we can do as far as proof. I've been contacting a bunch of people at the college I'll be attending, and I hope that someone will respond soon, as far as trying to find housing and possible accomodations for my RSD. I'm scared to hurt my dad, and I'm scared to hurt my family, but I need to protect myself first, and even if it's just from the emotional abuse, I can't be happy here. On another note I've been getting horrifying chest pains, they cause me to literally just lie on the bed unable to move for however long the pain lasts, pale as can be, struggling to breath, burning up, my arms go numb. It is nooo fun. So on thursday, July 31st I go in to get an upper endoscopy and a few biopsys done. I'm not looking forward to it. Wow....and this summer has gone by soo fast. On august sixth I will be turning 18. Then on August 26th I start college. Wow....scary thougts. I'm taking my drivers permit test on wednesday so I can start taking lessons, so hopefully I have enough control of my legs that that wont be a problem for me. So there are a lot of changes happening, and as soon as I find out what's going on with my chest I'll let you know. |
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Hi Becca, My father was far beyond abusive, I wont even share what my siblings and I went thru as a child with this group.....its too ugly! My mother left him when I was only 8 years old, Im 55 now and still think about it from time to time, he is dead now and never got the help he needed because no one ever turned him in. My father died alone, I always have my children and grand kids in my home. I believe that any child that is abused should tell some one right away, I know how hard that is to do but the abuser will never get the help they need untill it is brought out in the open. If turned in and found guilty the abuser would have to take some type of anger managment and hopefully some probation as a deterent untill they can get a grip on their anger. They say most abused children turn into abuser them selves.....I was just the opposite with my children, I couldnt hurt them in any way. I have 4 daughters and 2 sons from 15 to 33 years old, I also have the same in grandchildren...4 girls,2 boys! Isnt that a hoot? Franknberrie |
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| | From: Tami62 | Sent: 7/31/2008 3:10 AM |
Hi sweetie,
I am so glad that you are doing a little better. Just hang in there and keep moving in the direction that you are. Things will turn around for you. If you can't do anything about your dad then the next step is to remove yourself from him so you are going in the right direction. I hope your doc apt. goes ok tomorrow. Stay close to your friends and take care.
Tami |
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O I am so happy for you. So much going on and so fast. Tht is ok cause of all the happy changes that are happening for You!!!! No worry about ,,,, hurting him,,,,,, you will discover later how much is been taken from you that is stolen from you. Tho rite counselor n rite contacts can keep that full discovery from happening also. I pray!!!!!!!! Is sadd discovery.. I am so proud that u these moves u are making. Totally neat. EXCITING FOR YOU!!!! No matter what or how,,,, U think about You and what u need!!!!!!! As alot is been taken from u or us when we have went thru these ordeals,, when we see what n how is affected us our lives it is a devasting feeling n overwhelming feelins cause we have been robbed of soo much more than we can see or even feel!!!!!!!! So please ,,,, I know that he is your dad. I realize that. Mine done that n whole lot worse to me. So when all of this hit me,,, wowooww When it all showed against him,,,,him n mother still walked away denying it all n hve denyed it all for past 40 yrs... How sad too live in denial all those times. Really really sadd!!!!!! So my dear,,, I am really happy too see that u r moving forward n not letting non of tis get u down n hold u back. So awesome of u got be moving forward.. Huggzzzz keep us posted. Any questions I am sure we will answer asap. Thanks for posting this . To try too let u know that u r greatly encouraging n inlightening to us inspiring us too keep on. Huggzzzzz special one!!!!!!!!! Annie |
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