Here is hoping that this finds all going into a great funfilled weekend.  I have not posted the url for the paid forum that I am paying for ,,,, not wanting anyone too think that we have too go there without looking at the options.  And am hoping that we can get more nonactive members input.    I am very opioninated against the recommended Multiply that is recommended.  I have supported this group feeling and wanting us all too feel like family and important in all issues that we all have too address in the meds n pain n being alone with the ways that all outsiders address us with.   From experience of dealing with the different forums,,,,,,, Is that the transition can be really easy in moving too a couple of different places.  I wanted all too have input. Not just my thots of desires.  This group is for everyone n is your group.  Not just mine.  The group is seriously needed by one and all.  The forum that I pay for has options that we all can work for so that noone has too put in money for. That is another reward that can be all of our goals.  The other fact is that when times of difficults chats are taking place we can then make it private. Other option is that if we want too combine a few more groups there,,,, we can have as many chats there as we may need.  yes all going at same time.   Other important thing is that one does not have too pay too be assistant or to be adminstrator of the group. Not at all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   I wanted the group to be always safe. And know that they always counted in what n how they felt.  And still main importance to me.   Is totally what n how you all feel n want n where.  We are thinking of combining a couple of groups together.  Just what n how is still being discussed.  The problem is  msn is not accepting new members very well at this time neither. Wierd,,, that is msn.  Well,,,,  hoping that this gets discussed here. Hoping that all know what n how I am feeling about all of this.     Annie