Squeezing hugzzz  Mom,,,, I commend you for caring n helping your daughter soo very much.. No is not in anyway selfish of you at all.  Being sick,,,, takes alot of energy out n just wants the norm whatever that is too come in n settle things down.  The insurance companys n the whole lots of them expects n demands too much of us sick ones.  It is soo wrong.   One day,,,,, hopefully sooon,,,,, their hardness n demands will become nitemares too themselves.  that we can rest assured of.  Sickness will come into thier family.  then and only then thier fight will begin.  And they will become part of their own creation.  That I rest assured in n then only then more changes will come for us. Please know that.  And till then it is trial by error of work too find the comfort zone that helps us out.   Me ,,,, I do not trust all the drs words or chemicals that they put into our bodies.  Especially at the costs of money especially when naturals can take its place n be more effective and with less side affects.  I for one am really hating side affects that they put on n thru us.  So that is my feelings n doings.  I cannot see what the fda is doing for us except keeping our costs up n keeping us broke.  that is the whole of the fda purpose.  Sorry that is a sore spot with me.... FDA  purpose is.  O well tite hugzz dear!!! No more being selfish or guilty at all. Know that u have too take care of yourself in order too help your daughter. That is what counts.... U  BOTH  ,,,,, count!!!!!