{{{{{{ Kelly }}} So glad that you found us!!!! Do not be scared too look over the forum. There are links too other groups in the messages. We are most all useing  messengers also ..Our  contacts are in the messages also.. Thanks for posting about yourself.  Please know,,,  we are the same person that we were. Pain changes moods n  thinking n reacting. We are the same people. Pain is not fun too deal with in any way.. Understanding,,, comes with help!!!! Sometimes the pain is overwhelming,,, I use these times too help those around me too understand!!!!! Sometimes is mighty  powerfully difficult!!!! There is a way!!! We have too find it!!! Sometimes it all comes from a deepness inside that we did not know was even there!!!!!! We sure need too know that we are not alone in this.. Having too drive that kind of distance is not any kind of fun.. I am so thankful that those days are over for me... So powerfully thankful. Please do not hesitate too contact any of us, if you need anything!!!  Annie