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From: Peggers  (Original Message)Sent: 7/31/2008 4:55 AM
she won't be around much her Dad is really sick & in the hospital, his kidneys are failing and he has to go on dialisis..her Mom doesn't like driving so she is taking her to the hospital everyday..plus she is having a problem with her son, he went to stay at his Dad's and now his Dad has talked him into not going home,, He owes like 20 thousand dollars in back child support and she has custody til he's 19..he is 16 now..so that's a big mess..and her 13 yr. Em is giving her fits..what horrible age, lol.. I guess the little one is okay...anyhow I guess the sperm donor  as she calls him is really being an a-hole. Frankies girlfriend went to visit him and had never met him and he was really ugly to her..I don't know what she's gonna do but I think it will probaly involve court..Anyhoo..she wanted me to let you two know what's up..Peggers


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From: MSN NicknameCariAsstSent: 7/31/2008 11:27 AM
Awww, poor Tamara!
I know what she's going through with her ex because my sperm donor dad was the exact same way.  Thats why I havent talked to him in over 15 years!

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From: MSN Nickname-Shiela-Sent: 7/31/2008 2:18 PM
So sorry about her Dad..... that's sad.
 
About her kids, the older one. Well she should go to the court & have papers deawn up to get her son back as soon as sge can.......
But we have a law here, if they are 12 years old they can pick where to live.....
Don't know about Al, so she needs to check into that.
If her owes that much back child support, she needs to get that taken care of........... all she has to to is contact the court & get him back in court & they will put his ass in jail till he comes up with the money.
Tell her she can get a lawyer or not, she can do it her sell & he will have to pay........
 
Sorry I am really down on mom's who don't take care of there children.... cause the court system is there for the moms all they have to do is go before the court. Really really down on dad's who expect the state to keep there kids up.........
 
She should not put this off any longer.............
Tell her I said so....................
 
Just been throught this with my cousin & his family.................
he went to jail till the money was paid........ no if's ands or buts !!!!!!!!!!!!
It was paid...................

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From: MSN NicknameCariAsstSent: 7/31/2008 10:03 PM
I have watched my sister go through something similar.
Her ex owes her lots of child support but she doesnt do anything.
Her ex also wont give her any of the kids prescription meds if he pays for them so the kids go without their meds.
I am so disgusted by the whole situation.  We havent talked in years.
Im a firm believer in taking care of your kids.
 
I feel for Tamara.  Sounds like she's got a lot hitting her right now but ya have to be strong and take care of your kids.  I would doubt that she can force her son to live with her.  I think most states have similar laws about the kids being able to make their own decisions once they are 12 years old.

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From: PeggersSent: 8/1/2008 5:46 AM
Well this just happened last week..he went for a visit for the first time in forever and then decides not to go back..in her old papers it says she has custody til he's 19 yrs old..and she went to court before when he owed like 15 thousand and they told him to pay up but they didn't arrest him..he doesn't have a drivers license & works for cash under the table..but Frankies girlfriend asked for the address and he tore it off the top of a check..so he must have a checking account with the current wife..she has been in contact with someone who said they would help, so let's see..He is 16 years old now, so they may just say he's old enough to make his own choice..here in Calif. the take your Drivers license away for back child support..

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From: MSN Nickname-Shiela-Sent: 8/1/2008 1:20 PM
Here in Arkansas they put you in jail!!!
You stay there till it's paid. LOL Which is a good thing.
I sure hope the boy comes to his right mind....... sad!!!!!!!!!!

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