Welcome to the Haven! From what I read of your application .. I think you'll like it here and I can relate to what you wrote . I have often written about my life after my son Christopher moved to Florida and how alone I felt .. if I hadn't had this computer and the stubborness to learn about computers .. I don't know where I would be today but I will say .. I know I would of been terribly unhappy. The more I surf the net and other groups the more I'm sure that alot of us are in the same boat , there's this emptyness we are all searching to fill and maybe how we fill it may be different but we all seem to gather in our own little group eventually . This group is my santuary .. it's my Haven to unwind .. relax and above all it's very theraputic .. I get to let it all out lol. I'm glad you joined and I look forward to talking with you !