I've got a site template made up (yep .. I made it ) and backgrounds decided plus format is in place I had to keep in mind all of the plugins I got here and room for all of the links for everything , and if I do say so myself .. I did a fantastic job! Sorry if I don't sound modest but anyone whose ever tried designing their own website can tell you ... it ain't easy lol. I think everyone knows how stubborn I am and I reallly didn't want to put "credit to this and that" to someone else . So .. when I do unveil the site .. keep in mind "I did Everything myself" and darn proud of it  I  mentioned it will be something like Cyber Junkies old format with me adding so much per week (instead of monthly like he does) who knows ,down the line I may go to once a month but for now with all I gotta add .. weeklly it is for awhile . Reminder .. this place will have a forum and a chat room . I think bravenet even has a blog I can add and if I remember right I can tie the site in for use with Photobucket . So even though this msn group is closing Sister's Haven lives on . (and that's what I've been up to )