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| | From:  Anneblessed (Original Message) | Sent: 12/01/2008 08:51 |
A lot of the time when we dream we are processing information or it's our subconscious trying to get our attention because we are ignoring something... Well that's what I think anyway. Before I decided to leave my husband for example I kept having nightmares about trying to get away and for example one of them was when I thought I was coping ok and it ended with a big face shouting at me :The door is SHUT Anne! LOL I needed to be shouted at though to wake up but it wasn't very nice at the time... Now I'm having lots of dreams again it seems like a series of dreams somehow that started once I started this detox I believe. A few nights ago I dreamt that I was pregnant and also travelling and didn't have a lot of time and at the same time I had to find a parking spot for my car and go round the shops to get a present for my older sister who I don't really get on with and a few others. I remember thinking I mustn't miss the boat (or was it flight?) and wondered what on earth I should get her. Then I ended up having to have something to eat in a café as I was tired and hungry being heavliy pregnant. An old lady next to my table pointed at me and said to her friend 'She really shouldn't worry so much I don't know why she does it as it's all gonna be fine'. Then I decided that I would just get a few things from Tescos and a bottle of wine and that would be it. In the following dream I was actually taking care of my sister's youngest although that was when her youngest was a boy she's since had a girl. And I was for some reason having 2 babies to take care of. Now last dream last night I was helping out my best friend (who coincidentally has the same birthday as my older sister...) who is going through a rough time at the moment so that she could go out. She's got 2 daughters that are both school age but in this dream she had 2 young babies. The youngest was about 4-5 months old. I waved her off and said it wouldn't be a problem at all and if so I would call her. Everything went really well untill I was cooking lunch for them and decided to leave the youngest, a girls sitting up as she was on the floor. I turned around and then thought I'd better put cushions around as she probably can't sit on her own yet properly. But as I went back to her I could see her falling backwards and there was a hard toy of some sort behind her head that she fell directly on! She was in so much distress that she did what all kids do when you know its really bad...take a long breath before the cry comes out. As a mum I know the longer the breath the harder they've been hurt for some reason. I looked at the wound and it was a cut in the head and a big bump so I went to the freezer to get something to put on it, got a bag of frozen peas. My friend came back a few hours later and I explained what had happened, my mum, a nurse was there to to examine the wound and she was saying yes that looks pretty bad didn't you consider going to the A&E? And I said well no because I did a judgement call and decided it wasn't that bad, and really when we all looked at it again it was only a surface cut not deep. She was fine. There was no bad feelings or anything I am just wondering why I keep dreaming about taking care of babies and it always seem to be 2... Weird huh? XXX Anne |
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are you nuturing your inner child, or are you cramming too much in and not giving yourself Anne time, every day? Do you put it off and think heck its OK, so long as the kids are OK? Maybe your inner child sees you nurturing those around you and not yourself and has something to say about that - she wants some attention too (just at thought) with the detox, you are ridding yoruself of everything you don't need and preparing to move into a new direction for yourself, letting go of old habits, creating new ones - a perfect opportunity to re-awaken a habit of doing somethign for yourself for just 30 minutes every day. Thats what I got when I read your post. Love Erika xxxxxxxx |
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Thanks for that Erika you're probably right. This week if I think back I've not really had any time on my own in the evenings. I struggle so much at the moment putting James to bed, it's a fight every night and if I'm tired I do let him stay up because I'm so fed up shouting at him, negotiating, answering to his calls, comforting him etc etc that I've either gone to bed myself and turned off all the lights so that he then would go to sleep or let him or his sister sleep in my bed (which to be honest either one or both of them end up doing most nights anyway). This weekend I've really spent time with them in between cleaning but still they seem so needy. And if they're not then one of them will be occuping the computer and internet which is my form of light excape LOL. I don't know I will have to find a way to get some 'me-time' soon. They haven't been at their dad's over night for a month either, maybe that's got something to do with it as well... Thanks for replying! XXXX Anne |
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