I was driving my little one to his OT appointment when he told me that my grandfather is very sad because my mom (his daughter) hasn't come to visit him in a long time (at the cemetary). "she hasn't come to do the flowers yet".  I asked him what he (my grandfather's ) wants...So my son answered "all he wants is everyone's love.  That's all".  I asked him how he knew and he said "oh, well isn't that what everyone wants?"... So we got on a little discussion about seeing spirits and I asked him if he does (he has already told me he does) and he answered a flat "no".  Then he hung his head down low and said "that's not true mommy.  I do see them".  I then told him that I too see them and it's a perfectly normal thing for us.  The he said "mommy each time I look at that tree over there, a man comes to sit next to me". He then began to describe this man (I have no idea who this man is or who the hosue/tree belongs to).  But the manner in which he described the expereince was very accurate as to how we often receive messages or visits.  I asked him if he knew what hte man wanted and he said no.  So I told him that he has the choice to accept them or not and if for any reason he wishes them to leave, all he has to do is ask.  He smiled and we went on our merry way....

Just thought I'd share!

 

Martine