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Practice Reading : Dealing with a very rough point in my life... (edit)
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From: MSN Nicknameseraph87  (Original Message)Sent: 3/5/2008 9:42 PM
I'm struggling pretty badly lately and every time I come for help here I feel really embarrassed about it...but I just keep getting stuck and keep feeling like I desperately need to communicate with my spirit guide or get outside help. I don't feel like I understand anymore. I'm so scared out of my mind. Every time I think things are getting better they either revert back or get even harder.

More specifically, I'm in a new relationship. I love being with this person, I feel a great connection, we understand each other, and he makes me feel comfortable and happy. There's just one problem. He lives an hour away and every time we create some kind of system for seeing each other, something happens and gets in the way, sometimes indefinitely. It's the most hopeless feeling to be so content and happy that you've found someone and then have one thing after another threaten your ability to see that person and threatening the development of the relationship.

I'm just so confused and angry about it. I feel like this experience should be my choice and I should have more control over it. I want to understand the situation better and I want to know if there's a solution coming or any sort of hope.

This feels like the final blow. I can't take it anymore!

-Sera

P.S. Let me know if additional information is needed.


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From: MSN NicknamemscandyleSent: 3/6/2008 2:37 AM
Im sorry things are rough for you, try to enjoy what you have when you can, is all I can suggest.  HUGS!

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From: MSN NicknameClassic_One4Sent: 3/9/2008 8:51 PM
I know how you feel.  Life really sucks sometimes, seems like just when you get ahead 3 steps you fall back 6.
 
I understand what you mean about feeling the need to connect with your 'spirit guide' to get some direction, to help you discern what is the best way to  proceed.  It may seem that you are on your own because you can't physically feel your guide's presence or hear guidance...........but never doubt it is there always.  This post here proves it.
 
Your "INTUITION" is your guides voice that is always with you, trust it and follow it as you did when you felt the need to come here and post.........and Never Ever be embarassed about seeking help with anything that's what we are all here for.
 
You've heard the old "nothing is worth having if you don't have to work for it".   I think that is in play for you right now in this relationship.  Focus on the "positive's" always.............cherish and make the most of the time you have togeather physically.......connect through the  phone or email....Writing is the best way ever to express sincere feelings to another, talking and sharing and learning about each other and ultimitely finding common ground that will indeed help you to overcome the obstacles that keep you apart for now.
 
Use these resources to help you progress and give your realtionship a chance to grow, negativity and fear will only hold you back and rob you of the opportunities that are there for you to  help you to work towards what you seek.
 
hope this helps hang in there, focus on one day at a time and enjoy the benefits of a positive attitude and the reactions that you receive from it!
 
take good care
 
peace...love...light... in unity & respect...classic one

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From: MSN Nicknameseraph87Sent: 3/10/2008 1:31 AM
Thank you very much for the advice. I really appreciate the time you took to write that.

I figured that I should update you on the situation...

Just two nights or so ago he talked to me and said that he couldn't be in a relationship right now as a result of the fact that he had not gotten over his past long and fairly traumatic relationship. He said not being over his ex and loving me as much as he does at the same time was tearing him apart and confusing him and he thinks that it would be better for the both of us if we waited until he had gotten over it completely.

I think that this makes sense and I agree there's a reason for everything...I just hope I will be given that second chance. It just seems to ride so much on both of us developing and being whole first...I'm afraid of not being able to and missing the second opportunity. My depression has gotten worse as a result and I feel like I'm losing myself...

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From: MSN Nicknameseraph87Sent: 3/10/2008 1:36 AM
Thanks for the encouragement...I'm trying.

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