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Free Swim : I missed a few days at AIL (the Loft) . . .
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From: MSN NicknameTTorty  (Original Message)Sent: 10/17/2005 6:36 PM
...and I return to find a rival network has sprung up and it is busy collecting members and shows
 
so....uh, what happened at AIL? 
 
From what I know, it seems to have stemmed from, or dovetailed in the wake of Bug's return and her ousting or demoting of batman as manager at the Loft.  True?  Bug, who was absent for who kows how long, returns, sparingly, basically to tell everyone she's divorced and then under the cover of night defrocks everyone's favorite manager citing that he said he wouldn't be around anymore which turned out to be him saying he wouldn't be around much in the coming weeks as long as he could see.  So?  It's not like any of the managers were terribly present over the past x months.  It's not like Bug was, for sure.  But during that hiatus there was no drama, no threats of anyone leaving the loft.  And now, the Loft has descended once again into pathetic drama, one manager defrocked and demoted, another resigned/unjoined unable to deal with the pressure as her puppet moves came under fire, the last remaining manager, the Queen, is the epitome of what she demoted Batman for being: a ghost.  It all makes no sense, but maybe that's b/c I was gone for several days, which, thankfully I did not get banned for during some routine-or-sporadic-but-both-equally-pointless purging of the member list.
 
Did I miss anything or is that basically it?


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From: MSN NicknameKellysgotanangelsvoiceSent: 10/19/2005 10:06 PM
Oh damn.  You've got me there Flo.  My complete and utter hatred for Smig and Bat is blinding me to any mistakes made by the loves of my life Bug and Lissa.  Damn.  I was hoping no one would notice.  Please.  Sounds like your blind to any wrongdoing on the part of your friends.  And with that, I'm leaving this conversation. Bye now.

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From: MSN NicknameWonderland_of_FloSent: 10/19/2005 11:50 PM
Bye!

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From: MSN NicknameZelfrieda1Sent: 10/20/2005 3:09 PM
Sounds like there is a different set of rules ............
 
 
And that was the heart of the whole matter!

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From: MSN NicknameSmigChickSent: 10/20/2005 10:23 PM
You didn't have to delete that, Dede.

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From: MSN NicknameDede_springs_eternalSent: 10/21/2005 1:37 AM
I didn't see it as making any difference.  Between that and being interrupted by work a half dozen time...I lost the direction I started in.
 
But, do take this the right way....I love you even more since you got banned.  It was in the end something that turned out good. (Even tho I didn't find out about it until it was all said and done...it did bother me just so you'll know.)  I've been on both sides of the fence and you're right, its a very delicate balance to hold our personal feelings in check and to truly be unbiased.  When I was a manager at the loft, there were times that were very stressful because of how I felt about individuals personally and thing that had to happen as the result of an action or a behavior.  I don't think you were out of line in the least, I think you were frustrated and pushing for an answer that someone was not able to give you.
 
I just feel very bad for Batman and hope that his situation is resolved in as positive a manner as the one that brought this board about.
 
I do think that we need to learn to deal with mistakes that are made by the people we care about.  Loving them does not make them always right, but perhaps we should love them all the more for being human and making a mistake.  I hope to God, all my friend will never think I'm always right and not applaude my mistakes.  I'd much rather have them to tell me when I screw up and let me know they love me anyhow.

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From: MSN NicknameDede_springs_eternalSent: 10/21/2005 1:39 AM
But so foxxy doesn't bust my chops for the deletes....lol..
 
I do love Bruce and I'm totally supportive of him.

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From: MSN Nickname-SaveYourself-Sent: 10/21/2005 9:14 AM
not applaude my mistakes
 
I don't applaud the fact that you can't spell!

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From: MSN NicknameDede_springs_eternalSent: 10/21/2005 11:05 AM
LMAO...thank you for that too.

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From: MSN NicknameDede_springs_eternalSent: 10/21/2005 11:06 AM
But you must still love me...

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From: MSN NicknameSmigChickSent: 10/21/2005 5:51 PM
You're a very sweet woman, dede. You're good people! 

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From: MSN Nickname-SaveYourself-Sent: 10/21/2005 6:29 PM
Oh, I MUST.

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From: MSN NicknameDede_springs_eternalSent: 10/21/2005 6:40 PM
Smig
 
SY- yes you must, I'm not optional.

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