So, my dilema continues and has reared its ugly head again. So, I was thinking maybe we could discuss this topic-jealousy -and how it relates to karma, past lives, current lives and lessons to learn.

I have had my moments of jealousy in this life and have had to deal with myself concerning this matter. It isn't an easy subject sometimes but it sure is a learning lesson.

Some people say it stems from insecurity, some say from fear, some say from childhood issues. All that may be true but I still don't understand why it comes about in a relationship after many years of being together and not much jealousy shown over all these many years, only to now invade the relationship and cause pain, hurt, sadness, disgust, anger, distrust and whatever else emotion there may be. Where does this come from now?

I look back on the past 17 years and just don't "get it!" I have never done anything untrustworthy or intentional to cause jealousy.

Can jealousy pertain to certain souls which spark the fear? Or is it just a "human" melodrama aspect on this earth that has no rhyme or reason?

Is it a control issue? It seems as if it might be in this situation but it still doesn't explain why now and not before?

Anyone want to share their thoughts on this?

I would appreciate any "reading" on this matter if you have developed that ability also. Wouldn't mind some 'outside myself' help.

 

blessings for your help