| ~Making A Connection~ 
Anyone can make a connection with the otherside. As a matter of fact, you've probably already done it and not even realized it. Often times, the signs that we've made a connection are extremely sublte and we've passed them off as our imaginations or, perhaps, even that we are going crazy. Those on the other side, connect with us more on a conscious level as opposed to a physical one although, physical contacts are also quite prevalent. What you have put down to your own "imagination" could quite possibly be a contact. Let's say for example that you were experiencing something in your everyday life and suddenly thought that you heard your loved one's voice, or saw them in what we refer to as our "mind". Perhaps, they were giving you a gentle nudge, saying, "come on, you can do this!" Don't put that down to your imagination! It is more than likely your loved one coming through to you! They are around us quite frequently to guide us. Or, for the sake of another example, let's say that your life has been hectic, to say the least and you're confronted by a problem. You've talked out loud to your loved one and asked them for help, only to find that you're "imagining" them giving you their answer (you see them in your mind, or hear their voice in your head). Well, those aren't imaginings. They are actually your loved ones coming in to guide you! What Mediums see or receive is not something special like an apparition, or thunderous voices in the air, but rather images and voices that are heard in their own minds. The only difference is, they have learned to recognize the fact that these images/voices/feelings, are not from within themselves, but rather from those from the other side. Mediums have simply learned to listen to them and decipher them. Dreams are another area where our loved ones come through to us. It is the time that our minds are not blocking their reception. Not all dreams of our passed loved ones are visitations. Some are simply our mind's way of dealing with their passing. So, how do we know the difference? One way to tell if we have been visited by our loved ones in a dream or not is by the feeling that we've been left with after the dream. If we are panicked, sad, upset or hurtfully crying, this is NOT contact, but rather our own minds, trying to come to terms with the passing. However, if we have woken up with a sense of peace, love and feeling at peace, then we can pretty much be assured that our loved ones have visited because once on the other side, they are no long in any pain, sorrow, nor do they hold any grudges. They are filled with love and peace and they pass that along to us. Physical contact is also possible, but rather more rare. We'll sometimes see things move, or feel something sit beside us or on the bed etc. These can be visitations from our loved ones. Our cats or dogs are EXCELLENT detectors of our loved one's visits. If you have an animal, watch them carefully when they act up and seem to be acting silly, aroused, or quite nutty! This is quite often an indication that we have company! Children are the next best guage to this. Young children (perhaps, because they are still somewhat connected to the other side, having left it not too long ago) are also quite in tuned with those from the other side. Listen to your 2 or 3 or even 4 year old when they tell you that "someone was in my room last night!" You'll know the difference between a true visitation and an imagined guest by their reaction to it. If it is a true visitation, your little one will be quite amused and matter of fact with it all. It will be a "happy" visit/experience as opposed to a, "Mommy/Daddy, there's a monster in my room!" type thing. Finally, but most importantly, don't be discouraged if you don't feel that you've had any of these experiences. Our loved ones ARE around us and know what we are doing and feeling. It may simply be that YOU, yourself are not ready to receive this type of visit (even if you think that you are!), or, that you are simply not attuned enough to be able to decipher what you have received. Simply keep practising, or ask one of us to look into it for you. Above all, remember that we are constantly being watched over and helped by those on the other side whether we know it or not. They have not gone, simply transformed. If you have had an experience, please, by all means, post it on the boards in here! We'd love to hear your experiences. If you haven't and would like us to try for you, join us in our chatroom. Check the CALENDAR for upcoming chat times. Peace, Love and Light, Louellen Webdesign by: STARGAZER |
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