Thanks for your kind replies the message wasn't hurtful in anyway infact I think it was to allow her to get on as she's been crying nearly every day since he died suddenly on January 16th whilst on the operating table he just told me to tell her that he was "OK" his exact message was "tell my Sadie (Thats my Mother in Laws name) I'm OK....I'm alright but I don't know how to drop it into a conversation because I know that she's going to ask me why he visited me and not her.

 

You see I helped her with all the arrangements and everything else and to be honest I feel honoured that he's chosen to visit me to pass this on to her as I didn't think he thought that much of me but like my MiL i'm wondering why me

 

Jim

well,hello jim ,gonna answer ur query that why ur father in law chose u for  conveying message and not ur mother in law ,actually the ability to see and hear spirits from ethereal world is never same in all human beings ,not all human beings can see or hear them but the exceptional ones with extreme sensitive nature ,they can percieve even those frequencies which others are un able to do ,so ur late father in law chose u to be his medium to convey his message .coz he found u to be most suit able one .bye n take care