Hi Suzi:

 

I know exactly what you're talking about with feelings about other people and having no "concrete" evidence to back up those feelings.  I get them all of the time with other people. 

 

I've been in situations where I've gotten these feelings and backed off of a person because they were overwhelming.  Of course, no one else has felt the same feelings and because the person showed none of them outwardly, I was considered as being unfair in my judgement.  Only later, have these people proven to others that there was indeed something there to have been weary of in them. 

 

There is one caution though.  Sometimes, we get these feelings stronger than what they really need to be.  For whatever the reason, we can pick up one aspect of a person and not others that coincide with that one area of their personality/energies.  Without being able to do a full reading, it's hard to know if there's a possible explanation as to why the person is emitting such a trait.  For all that we know, this man you are speaking of, may be going through something rather traumatic in his life and is concentrating on one particular feeling at this moment.  However, it may be that he's not normally like this??? 

 

But, for whatever the reason, you are likely picking up on a side of him that doesn't mesh well with your own energies.  I think a lot of people get these types of feelings about others but, don't necessarily look more deeply into it or why.  They simply say, "I don't like that person" and shrug it off, staying away from them.  They don't question it unless someone else asks WHY you don't like them.  More often than not, the answer will simply be...."I don't know why....I just don't like him/her".  We all get these feelings but the fact remains that you are recognizing it and paying attention to the "whys". 

 

Love and Light,

Louellen

Suzi:

If this feeling is so strong, try putting protection around yourself beforehand if you know you're going to encounter him.

 

As Louellen points out, you might not fully understand this guy, but your reaction to him is strong enough so that protection should make you feel more comfortable, without necessarily, as Lou points out, making a final judgment call about him.

 

Blessings,

Dancing Light

Lou, your story reminded me of a story about a coworker I worked with years ago.

 

I knew her to be nice, but I never heard anyone else speak of her that way.  They were always negative about her, saying she never smiles, she's grumpy, she doesn't seem to care about anything.  Well I told her this one day, and her answer to that made perfect sense.

 

She was head of HR and much of her job was the unfortunate task of letting people go.  Those who may have caught a glimpse of her when she was lucky enough to get to leave her desk most likely saw her on her way to or coming from firing someone.  She said it's not a happy task of course and she understood why people would speak of her that way.  When others saw her, they usually saw her in a state which she wasn't happy.

 

Maybe this guy hates his job!!

My grandmother always used that old saying, "Never judge a book by its cover".   In Suzi's case, it seems that she's feeling his energies as not being good and instantly feeling ill at ease with him because of it.  However, as you have pointed out in your case story, Denise, feeling badly inside/within oneself can certainly put out not only an outward show of discontent but, also give off "negative vibes" on a less straight forward basis as Suzi may be picking up on.  That's the hard part though.  We never truly know (unless we actually ask and get to know the person) what is causing those "negative vibes".  It could very well be an extremely negative time for this man and he's unhappy within his own world and therefore, self.  Perhaps, his wife and he split up or she cheated on him???  He may be feeling those negative feelings and Suzi is picking up on them but, does that mean that he's really like that, or is there a reason for it that is causing him to seem that way to an empath?  Unless, Suzi, you are able to get into a conversation with this man, you may never know what it is that is causing those energies that you're picking up on from him. 

 

Love and Light,

Louellen