Thanks for your info - she says the dogs do start barking at what appears to be nothing.
She keeps the big dog sleeping in her bedroom now when she tries to go to bed or at least
is in bed watching tv. The place they have is too small for a roommate and I have thought
about going to spend the night in fact a few months ago I slept there for a night and didn't sense
anything odd. I do believe her - the main thing is these visitations are real to her. I experienced
a horrible year a few years back when my boss committed suicide by slashing his own throat.
Because I had cooperated in a police investigation against him he left many suicide letters
directly blaming me for his actions. Not only did the place shut down and my job of 10 yrs was
gone, I sensed his presence around me always and it was angry and I actually feared for my life.
The mental health guy called them hallucinations,...I said this is VERY real to me. I did lots of prayer
telling him to leave, lighting candles etc. It finally ended in a dream I had that he was in. I told him he didn't have
to do what he did...he responded "yes I did" he brushed my cheek smiled at me and waved goodbye
and that was the last time I really felt him at all. Thank God....that was a horrible year for me. I think he had
finally come to terms with what he had done and then was able to move on, I'm not sure. I often wonder what
really happened to him for him to suddenly leave and on good terms.
In my friends case, she said she really wants to know why they are there...so I think they are not
leaving because in some way she wants them there but says she does not. We are going to do as
has been suggested and smudge her home, light the candles and put salt at the doors.
She is 52 I think or 53 and this has been going on the entire time I have known her (5 yrs).
I know its easy to scare yourself when you are alone in a place and not sleeping well. But I do believe
her that something paranormal is going on and by doing the cleansing it will help both - her mind that
something has been done and sending a message to the spirits if they are indeed there. She is afraid to tell
many people because she doesn't want them to think she's crazy. She thought I would understand because she
knew what I went through with my boss etc. I want her to feel safe telling me things.
Sorry for rambling on, I appreciate everyones help and suggestions.
Kari