Interesting, your cousin died on my Grandfather's last birthday - my Grandpa died the next summer on my husband's birthday. Ok, I see a wet, rainy street - drenched - everything is soaking wet. I get strong visuals of a pothole with rough edges filled with water, the water sloshes. I see a blond man behind the wheel of a monster truck or a truck with a rollbar who is eating, he reaches into the passenger seat to get food. I see a thick gold ring on his right hand, it is thin on the bottom and then it balloons out up to the top where it has a flat spot, painted black and an etched sqiggly image, in kind of a square shape, which I want to say is a snake or two snakes or a foreign letter. The ring is on his middle or ring finger and he plays with the ring with his thumb when it irritates him. I see this guy sitting in a courtroom at some time where you'll see him do this. Note: I am a total amateur but I have scored well on psychic tests in the past. I'll be in the top 10% at the Boundary Institutes psychic tests on my good days.
http://www.gotpsi.org/bi/gotpsi.htm There is a churh connection around your cousin, I see a hallway with white linoleium. He seems to be the type who would make quick small talk when he was in a group and go from person to person and talk to everyone in the group quite quickly.