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I know this may seem a little on the strange side but...I'm realizing that I'm 31 and time is running out for me and I really want a baby. I also had my tubes clamped when I was 25 (another relationship and a VERY stupid decision on my part). I'm looking at a lot of money and major surgery to have my tubes reversed (which isn't a concern for my boyfriend and myself). But I believe that our bodies can heal themselves and I've been doing a lot of praying and concentrating on my tubes to hopefully have them heal themselves (clamps fall off and tubes are fine) rather than go through the rigerous doctors' appointments, and surgery and money and all of that. I also know that there is still a very small percentage of women who do become pregnant even with their tubes clamped or tied. What I would like to ask everyone is if they could pray for me and my boyfriend to become pregnant (without the surgery) and I'd be able to have a healthy and uncomplicated pregnancy and a healthy baby. I know that it may seem far fetched to ask for such a thing, but power of prayer comes in numbers and I believe in miracles and I am ready and desire GREATLY to be a mother.

Hello, my heart goes out to ya, and my prayers also. I hope you can become a Mother, as that is your wishes,,but please, dear one, know that all things are planned. IF this does not happen, then try to learn from the lesson. We have many lessons in life, also we must pay karma too. Be strong, and walk your path that you helped to plan. Love and strength to you,,Delois

Prayers coming your way hun, I was in a similar situation to you ( except I did already have kids just desperately wanted another), Years ago after I thought I had finished my family I had the coil fitted, big mistake, It caused infection and badly blocked both my tubes, I had every fertility test under the sun and the outcome was not good, I was told in no uncertain terms I would never have another child, never, its was phsyically impossible and If I did ever manage to get pregnant I would 100% be eptopic, there was any hope, there was not any surgery, nothing, I felt so down and alone, everywhere I looked people were either pregnant or pushing newborn babies around, I felt I was being punished somehow, About 4 years later when I had pushed it all to the back of my mind and resigned myself to the fact I fell ill, so ill infact I couldnt even get out of bed, when the doctor told me It was a viral infection and it would go after a week, 3 weeks later I still felt like death, by this time there was only one possibility left, could I be pregnant ?? I didnt even want to go down that road, I knew the dissapointed would be just too much when I learneed that I wasnt, Anyway, turned out I was, the baby was not eptopic and she is now nearly 3 yrs old, Never give up hope or belief, the doctors couldnt explain and were baffled, just goes to show they aint always right, nature has it own rules I reckon :-) Good luck and best wishes xxx

Dawning.........I am also saying a prayer that because you want to be a mother so greatly, whatever it is that needs to happen for you to become this wonderful role and honor, is done!

I am in total agreeance with Delois in saying that learning lessons is a very important part of our lives in total. We sometimes have to go through some things in order to learn just how precious something is to us and make it even MORE special! If surgery is needed to have what it is that you desire so much, then may you walk that path, knowing that you are heading towards what it is that will fill your life with joy, happiness and blessings!

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