In 2005 I lost my brother. The death was unexpected and really tore me apart ( still does) but anyway. That was when I first found this site. I happen to go into the chat room on a friday night while you guys wer doing readings. I can't remember who did the reading but I was singled out. Noone knew any circumstance of my brother's death except that he had passed away.

 

Now the lady that did the reading told me a man was standing there pounding on his chest. And was saying he was ok. said that he was standing beside a truck and could actually stop and smell the roses so to speak. But then she told me that the man was holding a little trinket box and inside was a single purple flower. At the time I had no ideal what that meant. And she also told me that she kept seeing deers or something to that effect.

this blew my mind.lol

My brother died of a massive heart attack and died at the age of 40. And he was a truck driver, so really he was always on the go, never having time for anything.

 

Now at first i didnt know why he had the pruple flower.That really puzzled me. A few days later I was talking to my best friend from childhood and was telling her the story. I told her about the purple flower, and she says. "you know what the purple flower was don't you?" And still I couldn't remember anything. So like I said she has known me all my life and knows everything about me. after she refreshed my mind then I remembered.. my brother was 5 yrs older then me, but he was such a tease lol. loved to tease me about everything.

When I went to my very first formal dance at school, I wanted to go with a guy that my dad did not approve of. So my older sister and I hatched a plan that we would tell my dad I was going stag, then she would pick me up and then bring me home. Instead....she took me to her house and my date picked me up there.  Now my brother showed up right before my date had come to pick me up. Behind my date he would make faces at me and point to my date. (typical brother\sister teasing) anyway

My date never gave me any flowers for the dance. And my brother picked up on this. The next day I was sitting in the kitchen and in walks my brother carring a handful of those purple wild flowers that grow wild. I mean roots and all and gave me the flowers lol. I was furious at him for this one. he had got me once again lol. So that made sence as to why he had the purple flower.

 

Now she also said she saw deers at the time of this reading. At that time I was building a memorial site online for him, and the layout that i choose was deer scenery. I almost changed it until the reading.

 

I haven't been on this site for along time but You guys did help me along with some of the pain i felt loosing my brother. I mean I miss him dearly but thanks to you guys I know that he is ok and is very happy where he is. Thank you guys for this!!!