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From: MomOf4  in response to Message 1Sent: 10/13/2008 5:47 PM
(((Dear Sherry)))  I had tears in my eyes by the time I finished reading your post.   I can imagine that it was a terrible position in which to be,,,for anyone, and especially a parent.  I think that you did make the right decision, but, what I think does not matter.  It is what you felt that your precious James would want...and it took a great deal of courage to to that.
No body, and I mean NO BODY has the right to judge you or be upset with your decision.
 
I faced a similar situation with my mother.  She had gone into a coma...and the doctor asked us if we wanted her put on life support.  My 2 sister and my 2 brothers looked at me and did not say a word.  I have worked in the medical profession for years, and saw a lot of this...so I spoke up and said...If it is only tempreorary and if it will mean that she will wake up and be able to have a fairly normal life, then yes.....If not, then no.  They all agreed with that, but, had not wanted to be the one to say it.
 
I admire your courage.
Hugs...Rean


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     re: My Unconditional Love   MSN Nicknamesidekick_43  10/14/2008 3:34 AM