hi josie its ok on the post but you are right about this group i would be lost without  it i am sorry about your lost  they say time is a healer all i can say about that its a long time for me  you dont think that you are going to put your child in a grave before yourself   then when you look at the state of the world it is crazy  well josie have you anything planed for the holiday w/end if so enjoy it  if you want to add my e mail and want to chat give me a shouy   love liz xxx