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From: MSN Nicknameaaaaahadair  (Original Message)Sent: 6/15/2007 6:15 AM
I talked with my daughter this evening and she informed me that she is pregnant.  This will be child #4 for her (actually it is pregnancy #5 for her, she lost her first child in the first trimester).  She will be 37 in September.
 
I am not too sure how I feel about it.  She has had odd pregnancies each time and the last one (Brooke) was quite scary for all (preeclampsia).  Brooke is now 3 years old and a special needs child due to the CP.
 
Between her age, and the last pregnancy, I asked her if they would be listing her as a high-risk pregnancy and she said her doctor did not see doing that yet.  She will be having to have a sonogram each month so the doctor(s) can monitor the baby and the placenta/uterine wall.
 
She has a great aunt on her father's side that had 2 pregnancies that resulted in a child with Down's Syndrome so I worry about that also; even though Down's Syndrome is not genetic. 
 
Her doctor told her that there is a technician available that can read such problems in the sonogram so there is no reason for her to have amniocentesis unless something is detected during a sonogram...I think that is what I worry about more...the doctor not being concerned considering her past pregnancy history (Bell's Palsey with first born, not enough sodium in body during second child, and the preeclampsia with the last one).
 
 
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From: MSN NicknameabsolutelystumpedSent: 6/15/2007 7:35 AM
I can certainly understand why you are concerned.
It sounds as if  the pregnancy will be followed closely.
One can only hope and pray for a smoothe course.

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From: MSN NicknameAngelbear1231Sent: 6/15/2007 8:57 AM
I can understand your concerns. We'll keep her in our prayers.

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From: MSN NicknameTarynRoseSent: 6/15/2007 12:22 PM
If only we could protect our children.  Didn't you think as a young mother that when you got your kids into adulthood you'd be able to quit worrying? I know I did. This is your corner so I won't go into details but I will tell you I know EXACTLY what you are going through and will share the story with you sometime.  But, in the meantime, Bless you and your daughter and that little baby and try not to worry!-T-Rose

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From: MSN Nicknamebluebyrd56Sent: 6/15/2007 6:51 PM
I will be keeping her in my prayers.  I just went thru a scare with my youngest dd who is 20 and first pregnancy (not planned, not married and the dad is a immature punk!)  Her down syndrome blood test came back positive so she had the amnio but it came back negative. 
 
I wish 18 was the magic number for worrying about kids!!!!!!!!  It was for my mom anyways, or so it seemed to me.  But when you have kids, it's a lifetime committment.  The positive has so outweighed the negative that I wouldn't change a thing

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From: MSN NicknameYenna_one1Sent: 6/15/2007 6:56 PM
Many prayers and hugs for you and for her.  I am sure she must be concerned too even if she doesn't want to let you know.  Maybe her doctor is just trying not to stress her at this point. If they have scheduled monthly sonograms, then her doctor must be concerned.  I too know exactly what you feel like.  Keep the faith.

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