Re Edward Cuddy born c1851, these are my findings so far:
Church Baptism Cudd Edward John Co. Down
Church Baptism Quidihy Edward 1800 Co. Kilkenny
Church Baptism Cuddihy Edward 1822 Co. Kilkenny
Church Baptism Cuddihy Edward 1830 Co. Kilkenny
Church Baptism Cudy Edward 1832 Co. Kilkenny
Church Baptism Cuddy Edward 1841 Co. Westmeath
Church Baptism Cuddihy Edward 1852 Co. Kilkenny
Church Baptism Cuddihy Edward 1858 Co. Kilkenny
Church Baptism Cuddihy Edward 1863 Co. Kilkenny
Church Baptism Cuddihy Edward 1872 Co. Kilkenny
Marriages:
Marriage Cuddihy Edward 1819 Co. Kilkenny
Marriage Cuddihy Edward 1820 Co. Kilkenny
Marriage Cuddihy Edward 1841 Co. Tipperary
Marriage Cuddy Edward 1843 Co. Westmeath
Marriage Cuddy Edward 1881 Co. Roscommon
Again, no matching marriages with Julia O'Reilly.
Marian
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