Well Fran--just over 2 months down the line and I have sorted out the connection between all the birth and marriage certs!
I have discovered that the Laugharnes aren't related to us but that Frederick Laugharne's wife--presumably by now widow! married my husband's grandfather Charles Smith in 1889. Fred & Mary had a daughter Elizabeth who was on the 1901 census as "daughter" to Charles but married as Eliz Laugharne a couple of years later.
Mary Ann nee Walsmley (& later Laugharne) was my father in law Thomas Henry Smith & his older brother Benjamin's mother.
I have now connected my late husband through his paternal grandma (Mary Ann nee Walmsley) back to the Kirby Lonsdale area in 1645 and all the certs I have as far as the 1700s now add up. I got my last confirmation last week!
Although Fred & parents aren't directly connected--after all your hard work! --I would like to thank you for your help as some of your suggestions etc either gave me clues or confirmation.
I am still looking for Fred Laugharne's death which may have been at sea.
I expect by now you will be heading for a darkened room complete with aspirins--it is a bit complicated!
I have extra complications because when Benjamin Smith died in WW1 in 1917 his mother was listed as Mary Moore Smith so presumably Mary Ann died & Charles Smith remarried!!
Families!!
Thank yuo for all yuor time, help & support--I do appreciate it
Eileen