Andy that is. Hes been in a strop since monday.He should have come home early as we were going to mums for dinner but when I rang him to see where he was he got all stroppy so I told him to fook off and not bother coming to dinner. Well we havent spoken much since.
Yesterday Dan went to a friends for the day,I took the others to mums while I went to see my friend who has lost her baby on tuesday.I didnt take the kids with me cos I thought that was the last thing she needed. When Andy came in last night the was a pile of washing on the floor waiting to be done,well he spotted a pair of knickers and said "when did you wear them"?wtf???? I went to pick Dan up and was gone half an hour.when i got back "why has it taken you half an hour to pick him up? where have you been? why have you tarted yourself up?(i had my normal make up on,but i had dyed my hair in the afternoon) you dumped the kids at your mums for god knows how long god knows where you were.He fookin knows where I was,but obviously thinks id visited Paul and Tracy for ten mins the went shaggin someone for the rest of the afternoon (if only!!!)
what a fookin to**er!!!!
He goes through these stupid moody accusation throwing moments every few months and then Im just expected to take it then forget about it when it suits him. He gets stroppy with the kids and shouts at them for nothing.I ended up just taking the kids to bed last night just so he couldnt shout at them for being kids.I sometimes wish he would just fook off and leave us alone.
Aww Jen ((((((HUGS)))))), I know exactly where you're coming from, Mark's the same!, though not very often, I now just ignore it when it happens, cos with him it's usually drink talking, and the next day it's all blown over, if we actually row over it, it can continue for days on end!.
Hope things improve for you soon, if you want to contact me my e-mails are
Poor you Jen.....my Jerry's just the same and I rant like that all the time when he's off on one. I sometimes think life would be far less stressful without him in it! Do what I do and try and ignore it, then come on here and we'll all have a rant together!
What the fook is it with men??? Mark does that occasionally tho not so much the insecure bit, although that has been known. I tend to ignore it too as I found having a go back made it worse. Pisses me off tho Jen like you when they just act a couple days later like nothing happened . And wtf was the knicker thing about?!!!!!
I think he thinks im wearing skimpy knickers cos im seeing someone else
pathetic i know.
I do try to ignore him but when someone throws accusations at me I find it very hard to keep my trap shut,lol. Sometimes I just feel like winding up a bit more
Turn the tables round and ask him where has he been etc .... he might get the arse but at least he will know what it feels like to be accused all the time.
Sounds like a man thying here what all men go through
but mine doesnt go on about the knicker thing though.........
Anyway i tend to do what a lot ladies do...........shut myself of and go and do something far more interesting than listening to him rant..................................
Dont take it to heart hun......this is typical of the male speacies
they always come back when they need feeding or smelly............
Oh Jen, I'm sorry he's been like this again hun. I remember him having a stint like that about 2 years ago. I hope he gets over it soon, you can't be going through this again.
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wtf???? I went to pick Dan up and was gone half an hour.when i got back "why has it taken you half an hour to pick him up? where have you been? why have you tarted yourself up?(i had my normal make up on,but i had dyed my hair in the afternoon) you dumped the kids at your mums for god knows how long god knows where you were.He fookin knows where I was,but obviously thinks id visited Paul and Tracy for ten mins the went shaggin someone for the rest of the afternoon (if only!!!) 
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, I know exactly where you're coming from, Mark's the same!
, though not very often, I now just ignore it when it happens, cos with him it's usually drink talking, and the next day it's all blown over, if we actually row over it, it can continue for days on end!.
hugs for you Jen 
We wern't talking for a week though,lol
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