ohhhhh good point .......

personally i would say no.

If they were at that stage of "experementing" id sooner they have condoms rather than getting pregnant or catching STD`s

The reason why I asked this question was just to get a few veiwpoints.

Jess (15) has her boyfriend J(16) coming to stay with us at half term. (He lives in Essex 240 miles away from us hence the stay over)

They met back in August when he was on holiday in Devon. Since then have talked everyday sometimes for hours on the phone and net. They seem pretty keen on each other. Part of me hoped it would fizzle out as he was so far away but it hasn't. And eventually after long disscussions with Kev we agreed he could come visit. At least on my turf, I get to keep a close eye on things.

Anyway, Jess and I have talked and she assures me she's not ready for the sex thing yet and won't be doing anything until she is ready. But having said this we all know how these things sometime happen.

I don't want her to be at this stage yet, and she say's she isn't but I feel she should be prepared.

I feel that I should make condoms available to her, not to say "ok go ahead you can do it now" rather to say "I don't want you to do it, ever, but if and when you do please do it safely and don't take any chances."

Oh and they will be on seperate floors let alone seperate rooms, I'm camping on the stairs for the week with my rolling pin.