Mine are all grown up ofcourse, but let mine 'choose' their clothes from about 2 or 3, colour, and thier favourite out of two or three I picked out.  Didin't have that much of a problem then ofcourse,

don't like to see  little kids in aduult clothes, a toddler on holiday had high heel shoes a crop top that said  'I'm Sexy'  and panties that said  'little devil'  and people wonder why perverts want to take pictures of their kids..........

 

My five all turned out different,  including a goth. but most rebelled and went trendy, as ofcourse being pagan I never was. but did dress the girls 'p.o.s.h.'  and insisted they wore 'childrens'   fashions.

 

Most teenagers seem to be clones these days,  The kids round here don't wear much makeup either, but if you have a problem with your, it is best to teach them how to wear it properly, and if you can't apply it 'properly'  it is worth getting them on a course. Never needed to wear it myself as I have good skin, and  colouring,