Hi girls just to let you know i said a couple of weeks ago my brother Richard is very ill they had told him he only had a few months well things have developed in the last few days and they have now taken him to a hospice yesterday, im waiting till my sister-in law has had time to get him settled yesterday. so im going to see him today with my other sister it's so sad to be looking at one of your siblings ill he is my eldest brother he never calls me by my name just calls me "our kid" i will miss that