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| | From:  ghaens | Sent: 12/23/2003 9:15 AM |
Sorry to hear you are feeling like that Julia. I have never been to Relate I'm afraid. Perhaps you should ring them to find out what it's all about. Sometimes you may find that you have a problem in one area in your life and the cause is actually elsewhere. Good luck if you decide to take the plunge and go to them, I know they have helped people in the past.  |
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But all means go to Relate.. i went once with the Ex. But both partners need to want it to work and both go. Please dont feel lonley.. we are all here , be it at the end of a phone line or a cable line, we are here to listen. (((((((Jul)))))))) Be true to yourself and be happy with what you want. |
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I've never been either Julia...probably why I've 2 failed marriages behind me now!  I can't offer any words of wisdom or advice, I just wanted to say that we're all here for you whenever you want to talk, we're seriously good listeners...and it really does help. Just one thing though, I seriously don't think you're the only woman in the world who plans her 'escape'...really I don't! Big hugs to you hun. 
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Sharon. xxx |
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Hi Julia, I dont really have any answers for you as I dont know about relate either, but I just wanted to say that I'd hate for you not to make full use of the wonderful ladies here, because I know you personally. Anything said on this board would go no further, and you know where I am if ever you want to talk. I would hate to feel you couldnt open up if you really wanted to because of me. Feeling lonely is an awful way to feel and I hope that you can sort things out. |
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Just wanted to send ((Hugs)) your way and wish you luck in whatever you decide to do. I hope you can sort things out. Jo. xx |
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Sorry to hear you're feeling down Julia. Maybe a visit to Relate is a good idea if you both still love each other and want to make your relationship work. I don't believe you're the only wife in the workd who hasn't planned her escape - I used to do it all the time with my ex - no amount of counselling would've kept us together 'cos I hated him so much. It may be a good idea to make a little time for yourself every now and then - if you are short of friends to go out with, maybe you could start a college course of some kind or join a local club where there will be tons of people who are looking for new friends and to have fun. You also have us lot here to talk to - we are all here for you to talk to, have a laugh with or rant at when you want to. Hope it all gets better soon, and whatever decision you make brings you the happiness you deserve. (((hugs))) Lou xxxx |
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sending ((((hugs)))) your way Julia, i'm sorry things aren't going too good for you . I've nether used relate either, i'm sure it'd help if you went. Please don't be afraid to talk to us, we're here for you.  Julie x x |
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