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As some of you know ive suffered on and off with depression for some years now. The main cause , so my counsellor said, i havent got over the death of my mum when i was 9. Well for the last few weeks ive really been struggling with my emotions and i can feel all the old feelings and anxiety coming back. I dont really know why im typing this cos i know i need to see the doc but im scared. I feel im going backwards and i dont want to get so low again. For nearly 2 years ive been off the meds and ive managed to control my depression but now, again, i cant and dont know what to do. It would be so much easier if someone could just take my brain out and give it a fine tune lol. Im enjoying work as that keeps me occupied, i slowly getting my house sorted so hubby is glad we dont have to move again ! Another thing making me feel insecure is my ex sperm donor has appeared on the scene after 6 years of not seeing him frequently. Hes been into the shop where i work, and im worried hes trying to contact Jamie . Jamie hasnt seen or heard from him since he was 3 and now hes 10. I dont say bad things about the sperm donor but i do answer any questions fairly. That much i do know, its up to Jamie to make his own mind up. Ive also had to tell Jack that Dad is not Jamies biological father and Jack got a bit upset over that, so this is another thing im getting worried about Any advice would be grateful

redddddddddddddddddd thanx for chat

sorry pet i dont do advice

Red

You're one of the nicest and funniest people I have ever had the pleasure of meeting on line..

I'm so sorry you are going through such a rough time and I hope you can come out the other end soon. I've no words of advice just some hugs and kisses to you....

Susan, I'm so very sorry to hear you're so down at the moment mate, I really am. I can't offer any advice either hun, only a huge pair of shoulders and an ear to bend. We're all here for you if you need to talk.

On the 'sperm donor' front...God I love that term!!! I think you're doing the exact right thing mate. Alice's dad has never seen her and she's 13 now. I've always answered any questions and never slated him to her, I've always given her any cards he might have bothered to send too. He's on his 'wanting to get to know her' kick at the moment aswell. He sent her an e-mail about 3 weeks ago and she's refused to even look at it so far, let alone answer it. So long as you're totally honest with them about any questions they have and never slag the 'sperm donor' off in front of them, you're spot on! Kids are intelligent enough to see things for themselves and they're far from daft at working out who's been there for them and who hasn't. I honestly don't think you'll have anything to worry about with Jamie hun.

Thanks ladies for listening, right now im just clinging to my sanity, its a mixture of allsorts thats making me feel this way again. Thanks for the kind words and if i need a vent or a huge shoulder i shall holla , i shall forwarn you so you can get ur joan collins shoulder pads out of the loft lol.

Red....

We need a meet and great session for you to get to know some of the lassies here...

or for some of the lassies to meet you....

you're one in a million...

you're in a class of your own.....

excellent company...

the boards have done you a disservice.....

red where r u pet?

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