{{{{{{{{{{{{{{ MOMMA }}}}}}}}}}} that would be a great idea. Really I do understand your frustration ,,, as I have also the same reactions ,,, but for different reasons.. My disability is not really seen  till I am standing or getting up from the scooter,, or chair,, whatever.. Then people look away like they are ashamed too have saw me..  I even had the problem that husband was ashamed to be seen with me.. At least I do not have that one to deal with anymore.. Sure will isolate a person with these kind of reactions.. REALLY!!!!! There is a forum,, on another site,, that is an awareness group that may have more ideas ,,,, n welcome your ideas there also...  if interested let me know   [email protected]  talks soon thanks dear one..  annie