{{{{{{{{{ Lisa }}}}}} {{{{{{{{{ Ken }}}}}} I am so sorry that I am late getting around to this. I am so sorry that we have to deal with all of this. It is a hard one for sure!!! Holidays makes it all harder to!!!!!!  lisa,, the one thing I can say is what ever works,, go with it!!!!! It is a hard one,, what works for one will not work for long!!!! We are all going thru the desensitzing!!! I hate it when I cannot taste my food. It  will burn my mouth like i are a few more jalenepo peppers than should have!!!!!One suggetion that I may have,,  separate the things that you should not be doing,, n delegate with the kids what they can do,,, each one a different thing too always look out for to help you .. Make anote on the wall somewhere too remind them till they get used to doing it!!!!!!!  Another thing that may help,,,,,  Put some strong Vitamin E oil in water to help with healing n pain. I still use it with all the others..   very goo for pain n healing. my skin gets soo dry,, n rashes,, skin starts to peeling off,,, it helps stop that!!!!!!  So here too you!!! Happy Holidays!!!!!