When I was married ( now divorced) My ex husband and I had a very nice house, there was a dinning room kitchen living room etc...
We use to ask every year for our family to come to our house for the Holidays as we had the most kids and it was easier for them to come over there then it was for us to go to mom and dads.
We always got a no.
Well this year I got a phone call from my sister in law ( the water between is very murkey) who asked me if I would be willing to go to her house for Thanksgiving dinner this year.
I have many mixed emotions on this.
A. I was asked to bring the chips and dip and the Wine . Because I drink more of it then well actually no i don't. I think it's because it is the most expensive part of the meal and no one else wanted to buy it LOL. that's what I think. Well my bf and I went to all the different stores and did prices etc.. and decided the best bet was a box so ha on them LOL I got out of a 5o dollar price tag for 10.00 LOL.
BUT the other thing
B: I am kind of mad at my parents. I would like to know what makes their house so much better then mine and my ex husbands was.
I mean hell It was bigger then their house. we had more chair, it had more places for people to sit.
But nooo we are going there.
I am bitting my lip as I look forward to the fact that my brother and his wife are going away for Christmas and will not be around to throw daggers and tourments at my sister or myself. and that perhaps it will be an actual peacfull one for once.
But I am still put out a tad and feel like a lesser child, as my mother is so good at making us girls feel.
See she was raised Catholic where the women are lower on the totem pole then the men. And such she has tride to rais us girls. Well I dont' take that crap anymore,. they can clear their own dam plate off the table I ain't their maid LOL..
and I am just as good as they are. so she and they can kiss this Witches Ass LOL.
sorry that's just my rant..