WE ALL NEED TO TAKE RESPONSABILITY, FOR OUR ACTIONS/WORDS ECT; BUT I HAVE NOTICED SO MANY OF US ABUSE SURVIVORS , TEND TO USE EXPRESSIONS SUCH AS " WELL HE/SHE HAD HAD A AWFUL DAY, OR I KNOW THEY LOVE ME REALY.........THIS LIFE WE LEAD , IS NO REHEARSAL, IT,S ....NOW... SO IF YOU HAVE BEEN ABUSED , PLEASE NEVER TAKE RESPONSABILITY FOR ANOTHERS ACTIONS , NOT ONLY IS THIS WRONG FOR YOU, YOUR DAMAGING THE ONE WHO HURT YOU , BY REFUSING TO LET THEM GROW, BY LEARNING FROM THEIR ACTIONS , RUSTY |