OFTEN , WE ARE PUT INTO SITUATIONS THAT MAKE US FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE, IT MAY BE AT WORK OR HOME, WE CAN BECOME AWARE OF TENSION IN THE AIR, IF THIS IS HAPPENING TO YOU, I HAVE FOUND THIS METHOD OFTEN WORKS........ CONFRONT THE PERSON WHO IS UPSETTING YOU , AS YOU WOULD A FRIEND , IN A NON THREATENING MANNER, LET THEM KNOW THAT YOU ARE AWARE OF THEIR INTENTIONS, VERY OFTEN SIMPLY BRINGING A PROBLEM INTO THE LIGHT, DOES 1OF 2 THINGS , EITHER YOU REALISE , YOUR GETTING THE WRONG MESSAGE OR , THE PERPETRATER BECOMES AWARE THAT YOU KNOW WHAT,S GOING ON, VERY OFTEN THIS ALONE STOPS A SITUATION ESCALATING, GIVE IT A TRY, RUSTY |